Living Free and Being Braver than Most

“Questttion, how to have school not bring you down?” Said Victor Pride, as he repeated one of his fans written questions to him.

His response…. fuck me:

“How to not have school bring you down when you are in university? Ahh, stop being a goddamn pussy. Stop being a pussy. If school is bringing you down and you are an adult, walk out. Leave. There is no reason to let something bring you down as an adult. Adults have free will, free choice. If you are letting something bring you down, I have no sympathy for you”.

“Next question”.


That made me feel a whole lot better.

I fucken did that.

I did leave universtiy.

I knew I didn’t like what I was studying. I knew I was selling my soul away.

I’m braver than most and I needed to be reminded of that.

I sold the safe course to buy the life of my dreams.

Years on after leaving university and I have friends that have now finished their courses.

One guy I know that was studying the same course as me hates his job and probably hates his life. I see him on facebook going out a lot more on the weekends. Probably numbing the pain of his job with alcohol and “good times”.

All I can say is, I’m free, I can do whatever I want.

No massive student loans, no massive HECS debt for some course where I spent about $1000 to learn about business ethics and how to not plagerise.


I paid someone to teach me how to not plagerise and how to remain ethical in business?


The worst part is, the time that was spent.

But if I didn’t spend that time, I wouldnt be able to reach you in the way I can right now.

So, it all works out.

I’m looking for the good in every situation.

I’m a blank mother fucking canvass.

I may not have some badass fucking business right now, But I want one and that’s my dream, so I’m going to go get it.

I want to live abroard.

I want to buy a mad ass fucking tricked out camper van/home on wheels and travel around Australia with my girl and our dogs and work from my laptop abroad.

I want to stop at beaches, I want to stop in forests, I want to stand in the rain and feel the fucking power and energy of this Earth.

I feel powerful today, I just needed to be reminded… That I’m braver than most.

I’m fucking going for it.

Which makes me alot braver than everyone else who isn’t.


Any day of the week I would trade happiness over selling my soul to be rich in a job I hate.

I’m going for both, thank-you very much.

Happy and rich.


How 2016 Went for Me and My Goals for 2017

What would I rate my 2016:


(Me and my partner from in Hong Kong, July 2016).

What got me through 2016:

– Giving up. (Sometimes you have to give up to release an energy blockage 🙂 ).
– New methods of releasing negative energy/anger e.g. laughing, training, sleep.

My word for 2017:


Fucken FIERCE as fuck.

2017 Goals:

  • 1000 likes on law of attraction fb page. Starting 2017 at 55 likes.

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  • Have a no-gi Brazillian Jiu Jitsu match.
  • Have a boxing match.
  • Have a kickboxing match.
  • Get my blog subscribers to 100.
  • Start an organic veggie patch.
  • Go to Bora Bora with Monique.
  • Go on an Abraham cruise.

Got any goals for your 2017? Comment them here (if you feel like it) and further ingrain them into your subconscious. Plus, I’m keen to read them :).

Can You Become Conscious of Your 50-70,000 Thoughts a Day?

We think 50,000 to 70,000 thoughts per day.

And approximately 90% of those thoughts are the same as yesterday…

You see our brain wants to help us.

It wants to make our life as easy as possible for us.

So what the brain does to help us and make our life more manageable, is it creates nice neural pathways in our brain that allow us to go into “auto-pilot” mode.

(Auto-pilot mode so we don’t have to think of everything all the time).

This is how habits are created.

You cross your hands a certain way without having to think.

“Yeah, that’s right I put this right arm over that left arm and then I lean them back into my solar plexus area”.


You don’t need to bother consciously thinking about this.

The neural pathway is set and you cross your hands automatically… and most of the time… without noticing.

This is the same for our thoughts.

The neural pathway is set and you just thought something negatively on automatic mode… without noticing it.

This is why you feel good or bad sometimes for no apparent reason.

Nothing good actually came into your life.

You didn’t win on the pokies, you didn’t get a job promotion, you didn’t narrowly miss a parking fine.

And nothing bad actually came into your life.

Your dog didn’t die, your girlfriend didn’t dump you, you didn’t sit on a thumb tack.

But you now feel good or bad because of your subconscious thoughts that have led you that way.

This is why we sometimes have “bad days” for no apparent reason and “good days” for no apparent reason.

The key to achieving more happiness in life and having more good days then bad, is by becoming more aware of A.N.Ts




When you become aware of what you are actually saying to yourself in your mind you begin to take back control over your life.

You retain the steering wheel to your ship.

How do you become aware of what you are thinking?

Well, meditation helps.

Staying in the moment helps.

Or 3 minute interval alarms on your phone help. (What I do haha).

Become more aware and the negative thoughts lose their power.

As you become more aware you see them for what they really are.

Imaginations of the mind.

You are not a fortune teller.

You cannot tell the future.

But you can aim yourself toward a desired future via your conscious thought actions.

Become aware.

What do you choose to think?