How to do anything. “WHY”.

Here is a 2 minute speech I wrote and will be presenting at 2 x local Toastmasters I attend.

It’s about why the fuck you need a strong “WHY”.


You can do anything if your WHY is strong enough.

I don’t always like pushing myself.

I don’t always like stepping out of my comfort zone.

And I don’t always like trying to do things I don’t yet know how to do.


But, I do always want to improve my life.

And I do always want to become more self-confident and self-reliant.

And I damn sure do always want to become a true master of my crafts.


My friend told me the other day that he can’t do cold showers because he’s wog and that wogs apparently don’t do the cold…

So, I told him that if I had a gun to his girlfriend’s head and I told him that I was going to kill her unless he has a cold shower I bet he would.


And I bet you would too.


You see, it’s all about the WHY…


If you have a strong WHY, you’re inspired.

If you have a strong WHY, you’re motivated.

If you have a weak WHY, you will crumble.

If you have a weak WHY, you won’t put the effort in.

Who are you doing this for, why are you doing it, where are you going and most importantly WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT!

You have to train yourself.

You have to train yourself to think more about what you want rather than what you have to do to get it.

If people truly knew how much work they would have to do to become a doctor, do you think they might give up before they start?.

If you knew how much work having children would be, do you think you might not have had them?

If you knew the amount of effort you had to put in to save a deposit to buy your own home, do you think you might have just kept on renting?

I’m not asking you to not consider the road ahead.

I’m just asking you to consider your WHY more!

Because when times get tough…

And the chips are down.

And you’re feeling scared, lazy… or stuck in a freezing cold shower…

The WHY is what gets you through.

The WHY is what picks you up by the bootstraps.

The WHY is what tells you to keep moving forward even though you can’t see where the hell you’re going!

Martin Luther King had a strong WHY?

Nelson Mandela had a strong WHY?

Mother Teresa had a strong WHY?

Do you?

My New Morning Routine

My Morning Routine I started about 4-5 weeks ago:

(By the way, this shit is fucking legit. It has changed my life already. I mean I have put a lot of other hard work in too. But, the changes I have seen in 4-5 weeks is quite impressive in my opinion. I’m less anxious, I’m more confident, I’m more ferocious, I’m mentally stronger. It makes me feel like I’m made of steel).

(1) Wake up:

I wake up whenever I wake up, which is usually around 5:30 am-6:30 am. I rarely get up later than 6:30 am.I wake up early because I am excited for the day.

I am excited for the day because I think about who I am becoming, what I am achieving and where I am going more than I think about how much I love sleep and sleep ins (Like a little bitch would).

Continue reading “My New Morning Routine”

How To Get Uncomfortable To Get Comfortable

Your ability to attain success has a lot to do with how much pressure you can handle.

Zuckerberg, Ford, Carnegie, Colonel Sanders, Mayweather, Jordan and Ma.

How much pressure can they take?

How much pressure can you take?

When push comes to shove do you run?

When push comes to shove do you stare down the barrel of the gun and say “Fuck you. Do your worst”. Continue reading “How To Get Uncomfortable To Get Comfortable”

Does living with no expectation really make you happier?

Does living with no expectation really make you happier?

I am a doer, I’m a maker, creator and a shaker.

I have been trying to control my environment with the use of the Law of Attraction.

Has this unknowingly been making me upset though?

I have felt really up and down for the last 2 x months.

I have gone really high, but more so sat very low.

Have I put expectations on an environment that perhaps I cannot/should not totally control?

Yesterday, I was reminded of the idea that…

Life is happening for me…


Let me say that again, life is not happening to me, it is happening FOR me 😊.

“Ahhh, feeling better”.

I am a teacher, I am a lover, I am a helper, I am an uplifter.

That is my ecstasy.

Helping others with my advice.

That is why I was put here, that is my purpose.

I absolutely LOVE helping people with problems 😊 .

I need to accept that I have been sent into a dark world so that I can become more skilled at performing my passion.

I am in training.

Life is actually happening for me.

No more expectations.

Let life happen.

Accept everything and find the good in it.

How can I help someone in a dark place if I have never been there before?


How can an electrician teach an apprentice the know how about electricity if they have never worked with electricity themselves?

Life is happening for me and I feel good about it.


If anyone is on the same playing field as me, here is the Tony Robbins video that has taught me so much and pulled me out of my resistant funk.

Oh and don’t forget to go after your passion.

As soon as I realised I was being challenged so that I could get better at helping people I immediately began answering people’s self-help questions on Quora.


Back where I belong – uplifting.

Hello old friend 😊

Love you all.



Momentum is possibly the most underestimated facet in regard to self-help.
People don’t realise the power of momentum.
Hell, I didn’t realise the power of momentum until recently.
Momentum can build you up and it can also break you down.
You definitely have to respect momentum and if you want to get to the places you want to be you need to learn how to use it.
If I’m down I use momentum to bring me back up.
If I’m super low I start real low.
Easy little pieces of momentum.
Little pieces that aren’t pushy and don’t exhaust.
Little pieces that don’t feel tiring.
Such as the thought…
“I don’t have to figure this all out right now”.
Super light. Super easy. Non-subjective. Non-pushy.
Nice and easy.
That small feeling of relief you can create with a single low-lying thought will attract more positive thoughts.
It is law, it is law of attraction.
You can try it yourself.
Think of something you love.
And watch how a lot of other positive thoughts will start to arise and flock about your mind.
Positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative.
One easy low-lying thought of momentum can really start to get the car rolling down hill, instead of the car trying to roll up hill.
Sometimes a low-lying thought can be too hard to reach because you are just too low.
In times like this.
Be quiet.
Stop thinking.
Try to focus and be in the moment of what you are doing.
Or go for a nap.
A nap will slow momentum.
Sleep is good for you when you feel stressed.
It will reset your clock.
You are not lazy for sleeping.
You are strategic because you know that if you are to perform you need to be in the right state of mind.
And sometimes sleep can help get you there.
Everything flows easy when you are easy.
Use momentum.
Start low and work your way up.
If it feels hard, don’t do it.
If it feels easy and light go with it.
Start low and keep going.
Sooner or later you will be high.
Sky high.

Living Free and Being Braver than Most

“Questttion, how to have school not bring you down?” Said Victor Pride, as he repeated one of his fans written questions to him.

His response…. fuck me:

“How to not have school bring you down when you are in university? Ahh, stop being a goddamn pussy. Stop being a pussy. If school is bringing you down and you are an adult, walk out. Leave. There is no reason to let something bring you down as an adult. Adults have free will, free choice. If you are letting something bring you down, I have no sympathy for you”.

“Next question”.


That made me feel a whole lot better.

I fucken did that.

I did leave universtiy.

I knew I didn’t like what I was studying. I knew I was selling my soul away.

I’m braver than most and I needed to be reminded of that.

I sold the safe course to buy the life of my dreams.

Years on after leaving university and I have friends that have now finished their courses.

One guy I know that was studying the same course as me hates his job and probably hates his life. I see him on facebook going out a lot more on the weekends. Probably numbing the pain of his job with alcohol and “good times”.

All I can say is, I’m free, I can do whatever I want.

No massive student loans, no massive HECS debt for some course where I spent about $1000 to learn about business ethics and how to not plagerise.


I paid someone to teach me how to not plagerise and how to remain ethical in business?


The worst part is, the time that was spent.

But if I didn’t spend that time, I wouldnt be able to reach you in the way I can right now.

So, it all works out.

I’m looking for the good in every situation.

I’m a blank mother fucking canvass.

I may not have some badass fucking business right now, But I want one and that’s my dream, so I’m going to go get it.

I want to live abroard.

I want to buy a mad ass fucking tricked out camper van/home on wheels and travel around Australia with my girl and our dogs and work from my laptop abroad.

I want to stop at beaches, I want to stop in forests, I want to stand in the rain and feel the fucking power and energy of this Earth.

I feel powerful today, I just needed to be reminded… That I’m braver than most.

I’m fucking going for it.

Which makes me alot braver than everyone else who isn’t.


Any day of the week I would trade happiness over selling my soul to be rich in a job I hate.

I’m going for both, thank-you very much.

Happy and rich.


How 2016 Went for Me and My Goals for 2017

What would I rate my 2016:


(Me and my partner from in Hong Kong, July 2016).

What got me through 2016:

– Giving up. (Sometimes you have to give up to release an energy blockage 🙂 ).
– New methods of releasing negative energy/anger e.g. laughing, training, sleep.

My word for 2017:


Fucken FIERCE as fuck.

2017 Goals:

  • 1000 likes on law of attraction fb page. Starting 2017 at 55 likes.

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  • Have a no-gi Brazillian Jiu Jitsu match.
  • Have a boxing match.
  • Have a kickboxing match.
  • Get my blog subscribers to 100.
  • Start an organic veggie patch.
  • Go to Bora Bora with Monique.
  • Go on an Abraham cruise.

Got any goals for your 2017? Comment them here (if you feel like it) and further ingrain them into your subconscious. Plus, I’m keen to read them :).